How to become a good liar?
The art of lying is not easy to master. When we lie we make up stuff , stuff which is not true. To become a good liar you really have to put together a good show. How big or small, a lie is a lie . If you want to get better at lying then bear in mind the following -
The Lie
The lie can be anything. Try to make it seem as real as possible. Use your imagination but don't make it too imaginative or you might give it away. Think of all possibilities.
Confidence
The key to lying lies in the confidence. Don't be over confident or under confident. Try and be as calm as possible. Use your human voice and don't start squeaking.
Don't stutter. Never stutter. It is the easiest way someone will find that you are lying.
Eye Contact
Its important to maintain eye contact. It makes your story better and real and shows that you are confident. If you think you will get caught then too maintain eye contact. It makes the person in front of you to think twice about your lie.
Body Language
Don't breath loudly. Don't start sweating or you will become nervous and then lose confidence and your lie will be out. Don't rub your palms.
No matter what is going in your brain never show it on your face. Try to maintain a poker face or your normal face. Don't look down. It shows you are guilty . Don't make too many hand gestures. It shows you are not confident.
Stick to your Story
Make up a story which is real and relatable . Make sure it has no flaws and no loopholes. If the story is taken from real life events you will feel more confident and it will appear more likely to happen. Never repeat the same line. You should know all the facts to your story in case they ask questions related to it ,which they will for sure. Have a backup story but use it only if you are just at the verge if getting caught. It should be related to the real story. But make sure you don't change it much.
Be Yourself
Use your human voice. Don't get nervous and change your voice into a high pitched noise. Observe how you normally speak and try and maintain the same voice. Be calm. Don't start bragging and speaking nonsense. Don't shout to prove your point. Like I said act normal.
Don't try to act too smart. Just imagine yourself in the position of the person in front of you and think what would I do to catch a liar ? And if you catch yourself then try harder.
Lying also depends a lot on the person you are lying to. If its someone close to you then you can easily get caught. Like, its difficult to lie to our parents because they know us well. But this is not always the case because sometimes parents do overlook the details. Its easier to lie to people who don't know us very well because they usually don't know our tricks.
Last of all I must say lying is not a good habit and one should only lie when its really needed. I don't want to make everyone a liar but I hope they become better after reading this. And you must know that a good liar can always catch a fellow good liar.
Thats all for now. Ciao ;)
The Lie
The lie can be anything. Try to make it seem as real as possible. Use your imagination but don't make it too imaginative or you might give it away. Think of all possibilities.
Confidence
The key to lying lies in the confidence. Don't be over confident or under confident. Try and be as calm as possible. Use your human voice and don't start squeaking.
Don't stutter. Never stutter. It is the easiest way someone will find that you are lying.
Eye Contact
Its important to maintain eye contact. It makes your story better and real and shows that you are confident. If you think you will get caught then too maintain eye contact. It makes the person in front of you to think twice about your lie.
Body Language
Don't breath loudly. Don't start sweating or you will become nervous and then lose confidence and your lie will be out. Don't rub your palms.
No matter what is going in your brain never show it on your face. Try to maintain a poker face or your normal face. Don't look down. It shows you are guilty . Don't make too many hand gestures. It shows you are not confident.
Stick to your Story
Make up a story which is real and relatable . Make sure it has no flaws and no loopholes. If the story is taken from real life events you will feel more confident and it will appear more likely to happen. Never repeat the same line. You should know all the facts to your story in case they ask questions related to it ,which they will for sure. Have a backup story but use it only if you are just at the verge if getting caught. It should be related to the real story. But make sure you don't change it much.
Be Yourself
Use your human voice. Don't get nervous and change your voice into a high pitched noise. Observe how you normally speak and try and maintain the same voice. Be calm. Don't start bragging and speaking nonsense. Don't shout to prove your point. Like I said act normal.
Don't try to act too smart. Just imagine yourself in the position of the person in front of you and think what would I do to catch a liar ? And if you catch yourself then try harder.
Lying also depends a lot on the person you are lying to. If its someone close to you then you can easily get caught. Like, its difficult to lie to our parents because they know us well. But this is not always the case because sometimes parents do overlook the details. Its easier to lie to people who don't know us very well because they usually don't know our tricks.
Last of all I must say lying is not a good habit and one should only lie when its really needed. I don't want to make everyone a liar but I hope they become better after reading this. And you must know that a good liar can always catch a fellow good liar.
Thats all for now. Ciao ;)
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